用 墙 围 住

Is not about Exams and then is about 情

spending too much time on the unecessary,
this perticular person, always nice to talk to.
today's topis has alot to do with "barrier"
intimacy is not happening if you build barries all around you.
people cant ven get close to you, what more about the person that want to approach you?

yes, history did make a lot of problem.
facing these problem is one.
how are you digesting these problems,
how are you dealing with the problem, is another critical conclusion.

are you going around the wall
are you diminishing the wall
or
are you building a door from the wall to allow yourself pass through it?

well, all these 3 choices signifies a different meaning of your solution.
going around the wall, you're just avoiding problems. NO matter how far you run from this wall. It still exist further down the runway..
Diminishing the wall is lke putting a relationship to an dead end. You wanna wash everything to the drain when good and sweet: everything were there in the first place.
The best way, or maybe, opening a door to your solution instead of collapsing everything that were originally there.

Always, before pointing your finger to the others, think again.
Is that person buidling these walls or you yourself are building these walls to make things hard?

Since is in the past, and I should appreciate now.

often you know how to think the right way, but you musnt be doing it right.
what you think and what you are doing is just not parralelling.

Get out of that circle and be confident.